As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us are busy planning delicious menus, inviting loved ones and setting the table for a cozy holiday. For those of us with friends or family members who have hearing loss, there’s another important ingredient to add to the mix: creating an environment where everyone feels included and connected.
Thanksgiving is full of layered conversations, holiday music and clattering dishes. While this lively atmosphere makes the holiday special, it can also create communication barriers for those with hearing loss.
But don’t worry—small adjustments can make a big difference! Taking a few proactive steps can help your loved ones feel engaged and valued throughout the day. Let’s look at four steps for an inclusive holiday.
1. Save a Good Seat
Help your loved one enjoy the conversation by choosing a seat in a quieter spot, away from high-traffic areas like the kitchen or serving table. If possible, find a cozy corner that minimizes sound distractions. Try to seat them next to people they’re comfortable with and likely to chat with.
2. Don’t Slow or Exaggerate Your Speech
Gently remind guests to avoid shouting or exaggerating their words, which can distort sounds and make them harder to understand. Speaking at a normal pace, with brief pauses, is generally the clearest way to communicate.
3. Be Mindful of Background Noise
While background music can add a festive touch, it may also add unnecessary sound clutter. Consider lowering the volume or turning the music off during dinner to make hearing easier.
4. Encourage Hearing Treatment
It takes an average of seven years from the time a person suspects they have hearing loss until they seek treatment. Many people don’t realize their hearing loss is advanced until they’re in a noisy setting like Thanksgiving dinner. If you’ve noticed signs of hearing loss in your loved one, consider talking to them about treatment before Turkey Day. A few signs to watch out for include:
- They often say “What?” or ask others to repeat themselves, especially in noisy settings
- They consistently increase the volume on the TV, radio or other devices to levels that seem loud to others
- They may seem to struggle or withdraw in group conversations, especially when multiple people are speaking
- They might respond in ways that don’t quite fit the conversation, often due to misunderstanding words or missing parts of sentences
A consultation with a hearing specialist can assess their needs and discuss helpful solutions, including hearing aids, cochlear implants, communication strategies and more!
Between finalizing the menu, finding the perfect centerpiece at Bangor Floral and gathering those family recipes, take a moment to consider the gift of clear communication for your loved one. Encourage them to take steps toward improved hearing and to schedule an appointment with one of our providers at Bangor Audiology.